I have some letters from readers (thank you guys for the feedback!!!) who do not really understand the meaning of the term Switch. It turns out that a person cannot choose his role in bdsm in any way? He doesn’t know if he wants to be on top or on the bottom? Doesn’t understand what exactly his soul wants? I think this question can be answered a little differently. Don’t focus on the fact that Switch is a weakness. Rather, on the contrary, a person is comfortable in both positions, and he feels absolutely harmonious being the Master, and kneeling.
A more interesting topic is ‘ there are several types of such behavior. After all, partners can both be switch! And this is an infinite number of interesting combinations. And also one person can meet with several partners, for example. Or at different periods of life to be with different partners, being either upper or lower. And there is also the concept of topo-switch – this is a person who is ready to change his position, but still he is more attracted to the dominant one.
He rarely agrees to the bottom position, and most likely will look for different partners. And there is a complete opposite – sabo-switch. These are lovers to obey, but still they are more comfortable naturally in the lower positions. Well, they can easily become the top ones if the partner wants to play this way. As you can see, everything is not so simple, and you should not immediately declare that Switch Cams is not a real bdsm.