So you tried it, but you didn’t like it? This is how many of my friends describe the Switch experience. Of course, this practice is not for everyone. I want to talk about the moments that have already disappointed many. For those not familiar with the term, a Switch in BDSM refers to someone who enjoys playing both dominant and submissive roles.
They have the flexibility to switch between taking control and surrendering. Well, the truth is that it’s all about personal experiences and individual preferences. Just like any role in BDSM, being a Switch comes with its own set of challenges. One potential source of disappointment is the difficulty in finding partners who fully understand and appreciate the Switch dynamic.
Some dominants may prefer a partner who exclusively submits. On the flip side, being a Switch can also open up a world of diverse experiences and allow for a deeper understanding of both dominant and submissive mindsets. Do you want to know more about fetish? See the category Switch Cams on webcam sites – you will easily find it because it is one of the most popular.
As I understand, most of the switches are bottom ones. They want to try the top role for themselves, to become a master or mistress for a few hours… To give orders and have the right to do anything with their slave. They want to experience this magical feeling of power. Well, most often they just experiment, and they can’t get 100% used to the role of the top one. I’ve had such experiments, and I can say that it’s not easy.
Especially psychologically opening up to another person. After all, in this case, you get two bottoms, one of which is trying to play the upper one. As entertainment and thrills – it is suitable for every bottom. But if you play too much, and you start experimenting more and more often, bdsm will lose its charm for you. There are only two types of bdsm people – master and slave, subordinate and his master. Trying to take someone else’s place is just a prank that can bring some pleasure only a few times.
There is no need to try to impersonate someone. I want to say, this is my personal opinion, based on my experience in bdsm, as well as conversations with both – the bottom and upper ones. If you disagree with me, please write and explain your theory. And in order for us to speak on equal terms – watch Switch Cams, and let’s discuss models!
Are you ready to switch places with your BDSM partner? If yes, start experimenting, but if not yet, watch Switch Cams. I understand perfectly well that 90% of those who practice BDSM were engaged in switch experiments once or twice. What does it feel like to be a mistress if you’ve always been a slave? What does it feel like to be in the place of the bottom one?
Let’s be serious, at least once every dominant has tried a lower role. A completely different story is that few of the born dominants like the lower roles. And few of the bottom ones will be able to behave correctly, like the mistress or the master. You either have it or you don’t!
This is how positions are formed in BDSM. Well, a lot of people are ready for small experiments. Look through the bdsm category on webcam sites, meet models, and talk to them about their experience! Very often it can help to avoid great waiting and wasting time if you are not ready for the switch!
We have already talked about the Switch Cams category and found out that everything here is not as simple as it might seem at first glance. And the most popular questions I’ve been getting are – can a switch fan finally decide on whether he’s dominant or a bottom one? I think someone will never accept this decision, many enjoy different sex roles. And everyone, of course, will choose the ideal option for themselves. I think it all depends on the partner.
If you have a regular partner willing to practice with you, it will be easier to decide. A lot will depend on his role here. And if you like to change partners, it’s much more convenient to stay a switch! It would be interesting to receive a letter or comment from someone who practices this bdsm direction.
I want you to tell me how you came to a final decision about your position in a bdsm couple. Or on the contrary, your letter will surprise me! In any case, I am ready to discuss, answer questions, and also be surprised! If you want to dive deeper into this topic, watch Switch Cams, I think there you will also find a lot of answers to your questions.
I have some letters from readers (thank you guys for the feedback!!!) who do not really understand the meaning of the term Switch. It turns out that a person cannot choose his role in bdsm in any way? He doesn’t know if he wants to be on top or on the bottom? Doesn’t understand what exactly his soul wants? I think this question can be answered a little differently. Don’t focus on the fact that Switch is a weakness. Rather, on the contrary, a person is comfortable in both positions, and he feels absolutely harmonious being the Master, and kneeling.
A more interesting topic is ‘ there are several types of such behavior. After all, partners can both be switch! And this is an infinite number of interesting combinations. And also one person can meet with several partners, for example. Or at different periods of life to be with different partners, being either upper or lower. And there is also the concept of topo-switch – this is a person who is ready to change his position, but still he is more attracted to the dominant one.
He rarely agrees to the bottom position, and most likely will look for different partners. And there is a complete opposite – sabo-switch. These are lovers to obey, but still they are more comfortable naturally in the lower positions. Well, they can easily become the top ones if the partner wants to play this way. As you can see, everything is not so simple, and you should not immediately declare that Switch Cams is not a real bdsm.
Not so long ago, I participated in a debate on this topic. Recall, Switch is a term that describes a person in BDSM who likes to change roles. Today it is dominant, and tomorrow it is bottom. Some said that it doesn’t happen that way, in this case, you just need to do something else, because being dominant is a real vocation.
Others argued that it is necessary to try everything, otherwise, how can you then command and control a person? I personally think that being dominant is really a vocation, and it is very difficult to change your psychology. You can either be a strong person with a strong will who can bring another to his knees, whip him, shock him with an electric shock, and so on.
That is, now you are in the top position, literally in 15 minutes you are already on your knees begging your slave for mercy? I would like to know the opinion of my subscribers because this topic is very delicate. By the way, on the watch.fetishes.cam website I see more and more models that offer Switch. You can immediately choose from which position he or she will be in relation to you. And they are very popular, so I don’t think many have these moral issues and reflections about the Switch.
After we started talking about Switch in BDSM, a lot of dominants who are sharply against this practice began to contact me. There are both men and women here, and I can understand them. On the other hand, I received a few comments from the Bottom ones who would not mind doing Switch and trying themselves as dominants. This distribution seems to me quite funny because here everyone is trying to assert their position!
Well, I’m a fan of classic BDSM, and therefore the Switch option seems really unacceptable to me. Although, I have received some quite interesting letters from those who have practiced both the upper and bottom roles. It is interesting, but in the end, they still decided and took their position in the hierarchy. Perhaps many people go through a stage that helps them find themselves in the structure of BDSM. After all, it’s even difficult for me to imagine someone who will practice this for a long time and will constantly change roles.
I can imagine, this is not a classic BDSM, simple role-playing game where people just want to constantly try on some new images. Do you want to see the real Dominatrix that infects you at first sight? I recommend you to go to watch.fetishes.cam and search thoroughly in the BDSM section. You will find dozens of very beautiful girls who will gladly make you obey!