I receive more and more letters, and one of them is just on the topic of Switch Cams. I would like to publish it (the author’s consent has been received).
“Hello! I want to share my experience, maybe it will save someone from a huge mistake. I’ve been in BDSM for 5 years and I like my bottom roll. I had a relationship with a Dominant, but then we broke up. And I began to meet with others. And my experiments led me to the Switch theme. I decided to try my best. The second bottom was chosen, but he had very little experience, a newbie. Perhaps it is my first mistake – I took responsibility for a beginner, but I wasn’t ready. First, fear comes. Usually, my Dominant helped me overcome my fears, but here it was hard for me, I could not turn to the Top One.
I was the Top one. And for myself, and for that guy. We started with floggers, and that was one more mistake of mine. I adored the pain the flogger gave me, and now I was giving it to someone else. Fear, resentment, misunderstanding… It is what I got as a result of this experiment. And I think I couldn’t give pleasure to my partner. This is definitely not for me. I want my bottom place back! “
Oh, that was sad, yer? But, I also received some positive letters, which I will show you next time. In the meantime, there is the Switch Cams category, so you can try yourself in a new role online if you want.
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